These are lovely earrings and look good with greying hair (!) and a black top. I don't see any gold on them. They are about an inch long and the pearl is about a third of an inch wide. They are quite solid and the clasp looks sturdy.
According to the description, the ring is for a man, but I purchased it for myself, and I love it! It looks so pretty, and I receive many compliments! Its uniqueness is what draws the attention of everyone.